Thanks Ang and Val for you comments on my "Never in" post. Could do with finding someone like you Ang. As I kept telling you "you would find someone", you did :-)
Yeah Val, I'm sure your right I do have commitment issues. Not sure its commitment issues as such just a lack of confidence. If someone is attached, there is no chance or so I think of anything happening or matter if you mess up. So I am more myself, if someone is single and available and I like them, I go quiet and just totally stop being myself. I know I do it, but can't help it. Surprising as it may seam, I am actually shy quite a lot.
Even when those that are/were attached and I have been myself with, once they show an interest I clam up and totally change. Because I start seeing them differently and don't wanna mess up in front of them. But then I stop being the person they liked (me I hope).
So I guess you are both right. I'm maybe not that bad, but I have to be myself and stop thinking too much. Maybe if I pretend everyone is attached it might work, lol!!
Thinking back whenever I have ended up seeing an attached woman I have changed and gone quiet, so they lose what they were interested in in the 1st place. I've been far too honest in this post, back to being a twat :-)
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